Wednesday, November 20, 2013
Best Man
So I know I know how can you be the best man when your the Imperfect Single DAD. Well ask my friend Steve Jobs. Ok I know Steve Jobs is dead but I consider my buddy my Steve Jobs. Steve and I have worked with each other for the last 6-7 years. I am not sure how I put up with him and how he has put up with me. Anyways I wonder who is the better slacker. Even though I could ring his neck at times he has been my best advisor and has seen me through my divorce. He gave me advice when I asked and never gave me advice when I did not ask. I really appreciate this because I know he cared but let me live without judgements. I remember one day he showed up to work with a smile. If you knew Steve Jobs like I did then you would be like why is he smiling. He normally never shows emotion. So needless to say I was intrigued. Did he win the lotto? Did he beat a game he has been playing for weeks or years? Well the answer was yes! He found the girl of his dreams. I was so happy he found a girlfriend. I watched him grow into this relationship while my marriage went down the drains. I never told him that marriage was terrible on the contrary I told him that he was headed in the right direction. Anyways he decided to get married. To my surprise he asked if I could be his best man. This baffled me. I had lost my marriage what could I possibly offer him as advice. I would like to think that I may have given him hope that marriage is wonderful even if I had failed at it. I hope he has a fruitful marriage and life treats him as he deserves to be treated. I was his best man at their beautiful ceremony. My Angel was my date and she was so amazed at being at the wedding. She said I want to get married! She better learn to live with the Best Man first! lol
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