Surrogate Moms

What is this "surrogate" "moms"?  Well lets just say I was inspired to write this post today from one of my daughter's "surrogate mom".  Angel doesn't even know it but she has many surrogate moms.  At least I take advice from women who tell me good advice on how to raise my wonderful daughter.  I realized that when my friend J-Lo told me what to do today regarding what to get Angel for Christmas.  J-Lo and I are lets just say "passing" friends.  I've known J-Lo for about 2 years.  She has a daughter that's a year older than Angel so I listen to her because I know she knows her stuff.  Plus I don't mind being bossed by her its fun.  LOL  So I will show Angel the toys-r-us thing tonight and let her show me what she likes.  I'm sure half the store will be on the list!!!   Angel owes J-Lo big time.  The other night I was at a Christmas Parade and I saw Ronda Rousey.  Lets just say Ive seen her throw down once or twice.  I know what you are saying why would you take her advice, well because she's more girly than me even though I wouldn't want to fight her.  I had Angel dressed with the typical jeans, sweater, jacket and moose hat to cover her ears.  Ronda took Angels hat off and said why doesn't she have a baret to keep her bangs out of her face.  I didn't know what to say but I knew that was a girly thing.  It reminded me of Selena one of my "friends".  She would tell me all the time put a bow in Angels hair.  She said all girls should have a bow.  So far I haven't listened but I will make a effort so that Angel is more girly.  I pray for Angel's sake that she grows up to be girly enough.  I love her so much but see my faults when it comes to this part of her upbringing.  I love all the women that mean well and tell me good advice for her sake.  All I can do is my best and hope that she doesn't ever feel like I tried to raise her as a tom boy.